What Does TDTM Mean?

TDTM means "Talk Dirty To Me."

The abbreviation TDTM is typically used on adult dating sites and in general online chat and instant messaging, with the meaning "Talk Dirty To Me."

Parents beware: TDTM is one of many abbreviations that suggest your child may be part of a conversation of a sexual nature, may be being groomed for a meeting, or is hiding inappropriate activity from you. Check out our page on online grooming for more examples of abbreviations to watch out for.

Summary of Key Points

"Talk Dirty To Me" is the most common definition for TDTM on Snapchat, WhatsApp, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok.
Definition:Talk Dirty To Me
3: Guessable
Typical Users:
Adults and Teenagers

Example of TDTM Used in a Text


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