What Does DTR Mean?

DTR means "Define the Relationship."

DTR is a term used in romantic relationships when a couple have a conversation about where their relationship is going (i.e., do they have a future as a couple and, if not, are they both okay with that?)

Summary of Key Points

"Define the Relationship" is the most common definition for DTR on Snapchat, WhatsApp, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok.
Definition:Define the Relationship
4: Difficult to guess
Typical Users:
Adults and Teenagers

Example of DTR Used in a Text


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